Photography is Poetry
How I run my sessions
During the session I guide you with little prompts and fun interactions to make things natural and easy. We might run and chase each other, try to escape an embrace, walk together as if a little wobbly, whisper something silly or naughty in each other's ear, dance, run, play in the water. After that, we move into some more intentional photos, but still with movement. Instead of asking you to hug, I might ask you to open and close your arms around each other, touch faces, play with hair, twirl hands. The key is to look at each other, never at the camera, and keep your hands busy. This makes photos feel natural, alive and full of connection.
You are not awkward in front of the camera. Most of the time it’s just that no one has guided you before, or maybe you are used to selfies, so being in front of a camera can feel vulnerable. Move, connect, feel. Frolic through the field, whisper something you shouldn’t, wrap each other in a hug. Keep your bodies talking. The more you interact naturally, the more real your photos feel.
Working with kids
Working with kids is something I really love and know well. I’m the oldest of six siblings, so I’ve learned how to handle not just children, but all kinds of different personalities. I always send out a little guide on how to prepare kids for a session, which you can also read here on the blog. I like to know about their interests, favourite games, if there’s a song they love to dance or sing to, and also what things might trigger them.
I usually start in two ways. If a child is shy or a bit unsure, I give them space to take it all in, explain what the camera is, show them how it works, and even let them hold it themselves. We begin with games they already love and are used to, and later move into the more posed moments like a hug, a sandwich kiss, or a kiss on a mum’s bump if it’s a maternity session. But I never ask a child to stop and smile at the camera. I let them run, play, show me what’s important to them, and I let myself see the world through their eyes. Whether it’s being amazed by a little pebble or showing off their dance moves, the key is to follow their rhythm and let them be exactly who they are. In the future, you’ll want to remember how it felt when they were little. You won’t want a posed photo looking at the camera. You’ll want to see how they played and smiled in their own unique way back then.
These sessions are about the moment.
Letting go of insecurities, trying something new, just enjoying each other’s company. When was the last time you had a moment like that together? Or maybe you haven’t yet. It’s not about ticking the box of maternity photos or annual family photos, it’s about creating a memory. One day you’ll look back and see your connection, who you were at that moment, and the joy you felt.